Big Sur Elopement Guide
Big Sur Elopement Guide
Big Sur Elopement Guide | from your big sur elopement photographer + videographer
If you’ve never been to Big Sur, California, or better yet are considering having your elopement in Big Sur then you’re in for something magical. We’re talking epic coastlines, rugged rocks, stunning cliff views, sandy beaches, rolling hills, ancient redwoods, earthy tones, and the most beautiful sunrises and sunsets imaginable - if you want your breath to be taken away by an elopement location beyond your wildest dreams, then having a Big Sur elopement or adventure wedding will never fall short of just that.
If having a big sur elopement in’t at the top of your list for locations to get married in california then it needs to be - let me show you why!
In this guide, you’ll find everything you need to know to get married in Big Sur!
Big Sur Permits + California Marriage Laws
When to Elope in Big Sur
Top Places to Get Married in Big Sur
Big Sur Elopement Packages
How to get married in Big Sur:
california state marriage laws + big sur elopement permits:
Marriage License: before you can have your Big Sur Elopement, you’ll need a California state marriage license.
Both of you must be at least 18 years old, and you must apply for and sign for the license in person.
The cost for a public marriage license is $84.
There’s no waiting period, so you can get your license in the morning and get married in the afternoon.
A ceremony must occur within 90 days from the date the license is issued. *a ceremony may take place anywhere within the state of California
Permitting: Andrew modern State Park, Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park, and/or Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park
A special use permit is required for most locations in/near Big Sur
The permit cost is $275 for 4-hour permit
Up to 10 people (total including vendors)
$25 non-refundable filing fee, $100 if reserved less than 30 days prior to the event
$400 - $1500 damage deposit
When is the best time to get elope in Big Sur?
best time of year to have your big sur elopement
Summer: Summer is hands-down the most popular season in Big Sur. in the morning there’s a ton of fog that typically stays until mid-day, giving you the option for a California moody vibe, or if you’re dreaming of a magical sunset golden hour and clear skies you can opt for a ceremony in the afternoon. Better yet, do both!
Fall: I really love fall in Big Sur - first of all, the foliage colors are extra warm and earthy! The weather is still warm, the fog in the morning is lifted or gone, crowds are smaller so if having more privacy is important to you then all of these reasons together make fall the perfect season to elope in Big Sur.
Winter: California does get winters and on the coast, it can get quite cold and rainy but if you’re looking for some moody coastal weather and minimal people then wintertime in Big Sur might just be perfect when planning your elopement or intimate wedding.
Spring: Spring is another season I absolutely love in Big Sur. The weather is starting to warm up, all though morning and evenings can still be chilly - the scenery is worth it. Wildflowers are blooming, everything just starts to feel refreshed and tourists haven't flocked to this gorgeous area just yet so it’s still likely you’ll find plenty of privacy in less known areas if that is something important to you. However, it is important to have a backup plan, maybe some all-wheel-drive since the coast can be known for landslides + muddy backroads.
Best Time of Day to Elope in Big Sur:
The best time of day for a Big Sur elopement depends on various factors, including lighting, weather, and personal preferences. Consider the specific location within Big Sur, as the coastline offers a variety of stunning backdrops, including cliffs, beaches, and redwood forests. Check the weather forecast for the time of year you plan to elope, and be aware of any special events or popular times for visitors. Regardless of the time you choose, the key is to be flexible and have contingency plans in case of unexpected weather changes or other factors. Here are some considerations:
Sunrise:
Pros: Soft morning light, fewer crowds, and a tranquil atmosphere.
Cons: Early wake-up, cooler temperatures, and potential for morning fog.
Midday:
Pros: Consistent lighting, warmer temperatures, and great visibility.
Cons: Busier with visitors, harsh shadows, and less dramatic lighting for photography.
Sunset:
Pros: Golden hour light, warm tones, and a romantic setting.
Cons: Can be crowded, cooler temperatures, and changing lighting conditions.
Late Afternoon:
Pros: Beautiful warm light without the early morning wake-up.
Cons: Slightly busier than the morning, but usually quieter than sunset.
Where can you have your Elopement in Big Sur?
Best Elopement Locations in Big Sur:
Question is - what do you want to see, what do you want to do, who do you want to be there and where’s going to make you look to be and feel all over again?
There’s a ton of California State Parks, national forest, and BLM locations where you can have your elopement or an intimate wedding - but first things first. do your research (or hire a professional like me), get the correct permits, and follow all LNT principles. Sow for some of my favorite elopement locations in Big Sur.
GARRAPATA STATE PARK
Garrapata State Park is along the dramatic coastline, you’ll find some of the most beautiful beaches that actually stretch along the coast for miles, allowing spots that are way more secluded than people might think. The way that the sunsets over the huge jagged rocks and sea are so breathtaking, you just have to see.
PFEIFFER BEACH
One of the most known places to elope in Big Sur - Pfeiffer Beach is also one of the most visited beaches. it’s knowns for the iconic arch and its purple sand. It’s located within the Los Padres National Forest and is one of the most visited beaches in Big Sur. Pfeiffer beach is known for its iconic keyhole arch and purple sand. Despite it being a more popular location, it shouldn't be checked off your list because if you hit it just right, it’s truly magical to experience and is located super close to some other really neat spots.
ANCIENT REDWOODS
Yup, redwoods aren’t just up in the most Northern California and these ones are a must-see! There are a ton of hidden gems that makes the redwoods not only a magical experience but if seclusion is something that’s a top priority, it won’t be hard to find. if finding a cute little cabin to stay in + eloping in the ancient redwoods, then you’ve got to check out my favorite spot at the Big Sur Lodge!
McWay Falls:
This iconic waterfall cascades directly onto the beach, creating a picturesque backdrop. It's a popular spot for elopements due to its beauty and accessibility. Nestled within the enchanting landscape of Big Sur, California, renowned for its rugged coastline and dramatic cliffs. The centerpiece of McWay Falls is a mesmerizing 80-foot waterfall that gracefully spills onto a pristine, secluded beach. Surrounded by lush vegetation and framed by the azure waters of the Pacific Ocean, the waterfall and its surroundings create a captivating scene, making McWay Falls one of the most iconic and picturesque locations along the California coast.
Bixby Creek Bridge:
Bixby Creek Bridge graces the landscape of Big Sur with its architectural grandeur, spanning the rugged cliffs and offering a breathtaking view of the Pacific Ocean. Perched high above the rocky coastline, the bridge provides an iconic vantage point, surrounded by the sheer beauty of the coastal mountains. The landscape is characterized by the harmony between the sweeping curves of the bridge and the majestic cliffs, making Bixby Creek Bridge a captivating symbol of the natural splendor that defines Big Sur. The bridge itself or the surrounding areas can make for a breathtaking elopement location.
Point Lobos State Natural Reserve:
There are numerous trails and coves that offer secluded spots for a private and intimate elopement. The reserve features rugged cliffs, hidden coves, and vibrant tide pools, creating a dynamic coastal environment. Lush cypress and pine forests provide a picturesque backdrop to the dramatic shoreline, making Point Lobos a haven for nature enthusiasts seeking a harmonious blend of land and sea.
Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park:
In addition to McWay Falls, this park offers various trails with panoramic ocean views. You can find a spot along one of the cliffs or within the redwood groves for a magical elopement setting. Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park offers a captivating landscape along the Big Sur coast, characterized by its majestic redwood groves and panoramic ocean views. The park is home to the famous McWay Falls, an 80-foot waterfall that cascades directly onto a pristine beach, adding an ethereal touch to the coastal scenery. With lush vegetation, meandering trails, and the iconic Bixby Creek Bridge in the distance
Andrew Molera State Park:
This park features meadows, beaches, and coastal bluffs, providing a variety of backdrops for your elopement. It's a less crowded option with plenty of natural beauty. Encompassing meadows, coastal bluffs, and pristine beaches. The park's scenic trails lead visitors through golden fields, offering panoramic views of the Pacific Ocean and the rugged coastline. With the soothing sound of waves crashing against the shore and the backdrop of rolling hills, Andrew Molera State Park provides a tranquil and picturesque setting for those seeking a connection with nature.
MY FAV LESS KNOWN LOCATIONS
Although I just threw out three of my fav spots - Big Sur actually has a ton of way less known locations to say “I do” so if you’re looking for an epic location for your Big Sur elopement but don’t want the same spot everyone you’ve seen has been? Get in touch and ill help you find a unique location the speaks just right for the two of you!
Where to Stay for your Big Sur Elopement:
Another one of those key pieces to elevate your elopement experience - choosing the place you’ll stay for your elopement or intimate wedding. It matters so why not find what’s perfect for the two of you.
AIRBNBS
ELOPEMENT WINE COUNTRY TREE HOUSE
CAMPING
If you're looking to camp, the Big Sur area has a ton of camping options that work for all budgets. You can check out grounds and make reservations for your Big Sur camping adventure online + here are a few of my favs.
FERNWOOD CAMPGROUND AND RESORT
CARMEL BY THE SEA
Okay, Carmel by the Sea is on the northern side near Garrapata State Park and this little town is so fucking cute! There are tons of little boutique hotels, Airbnb’s, amazing sea food restaurants, wine bars, and super cute shops! If you love little town adventures, you defiantly should check out staying in the little downtown area!
Big Sur Elopement Photographer
hey, hi - i’m rylee!
My passion for Intimate Weddings, Elopements, and storytelling is based on being able to connect with couples like you. my style is adventurous, fun, and laidback and my approach is a combination of documenting emotion, candid moments and giving a bit of direction where needed to be able to capture the two of you in the most authentic and natural way possible.
So if you’re looking for a Big Sur Elopement Photographer who’s going to have you laughing a little too hard, isn’t afraid to get a little wild, takes beautiful images, and makes you feel amazing the whole time, then I’m probably your kinda vibe.
Big Sur Elopement Packages
Planning and Resources:
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